That formal invitation arrives, and the excitement is building. With the excitement, though, come nerves, in part because you’re unsure about the dress code.
Suit or tuxedo is a common dilemma. The reliable suit is what serves us on endless occasions, but that’s what makes the tuxedo so special. It’s elevated, but many are cautious about overdressing, or getting it wrong. So, this guide will look at the differences, and when getting out a tux is a good idea.
Suit vs. tuxedo: What’s the difference?
The when begins with the what. The differences are fairly specific but mostly revolve around formality. A suit typically features notch or peak lapels that are made from the same fabric (usually wool or a blend) as the jacket body, with plastic or horn buttons. Its trousers match the jacket material.
This is different to a tuxedo, which is distinguished by contrasting fabric facings (often satin or grosgrain) on its lapels (often peak or shawl), as well as the buttons and pocket trim. What many forget is that tuxedo trousers lack belt loops and feature a coordinating stripe down the outseam.
Weighing up formal dress codes
The invitation often holds the answer, as explicit dress codes should be taken as orders, not suggestions. “Black Tie” is the clearest signal here: a tuxedo is required (it doesn’t mean a black suit and black tie). Attending a Black Tie event, which is often in galas and formal evening weddings, in a standard suit is simply incorrect.
“Black Tie Optional” or “Black Tie Preferred” does offer some leeway, and this is where you may ask other invitees. A tuxedo remains the most appropriate and respectful choice here, but a dark and impeccably tailored suit (think charcoal or dark navy) with conservative accessories is certainly permissible.
“Creative Black Tie” is an interesting one, as it allows personal flair, but this must be on a tuxedo base – perhaps a velvet jacket or some unique cufflinks. Strangely, this allows less room for a suit than a “Black Tie Optional” invitation. For codes like formal, semi-formal or even cocktail attire, a suit is usually the right call, as a tuxedo would likely be considered overdressed.
The unspoken rules
It’s worth considering the context of the event. Time of day is perhaps the most important aspect, as tuxedos are always evening wear, such as events that start after 6pm or sunset. Should there be a very formal wedding, if it’s in the day, then it would be a misstep to go in a tux, unless it’s very explicitly requested in the invite. Suits are what bridge day and evening.
Consider the event’s nature too, as for weddings you must follow the dress code; if none is given, a suit is standard for daytime or less formal evening affairs. Only choose a tuxedo if “Black Tie” is specified. Prestigious evening events like premieres or charity balls often imply Black Tie standards, making a tuxedo the safer choice. Remember though, tuxedos are for celebration and ceremony, not business.
Dressing with confidence
Choosing between a suit and a tuxedo depends on a few things, like the time of day and the nature of the event. The invitation should always take priority, but it’s not always completely clear. What’s for certain, though, is that following the rules of no tuxedos in the daytime or for business can give you the confidence to dress and impress.
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